girls definitely read into things way too deeply. well, most girls anyways. (and i think i fall into that category..)
on another note, today was meiqi's 20th birthday :)
we surprised her big time! everything was beautifully perfect. picture this: you open your door to find this dark hallway littered with balloons scattered here and there, and at the end, is a gorgeous chocolate cake, lit with 20 glowing candles. perfect eh? the funny and sad part was that we waited TWO WHOLE hours for her to come home!! we were all sitting on that couch taking turns as "lookout" aka watchdog post. twas some good times though! and great conversation too! for example, we were talking about homosexuality, nature vs nurture.. meiqi had a friend who worked in a lab with budgies, and APPARENTLY one can induce homosexuality on these birds. so, if a female budgie were in a cage with another female, they'd become lesbians... yet if those 2 same females were separated and put into another cage with a Male, then they'd become heterosexual. looking at that case, what does it say about humanity and sexuality? nature? are we born with the genes which writes off our sexuality? or.. are we nurtured in such a way as to promote our type of sexuality? interesting eh? are humans so impressionable as to have our essence - our sexuality - as a male or female to be shaped and molded by the media? literature? society?
something to think about..
